Hi Guys.... this is my first time on this diet. This is my frist time seeking out friends to help me stay on my diet too! I'm excited! I live in NYC and many things in my life have been changing recently and has lead to me being depressed and unmotivated. However, I have decided that I need to take charge of my life and do something.
That something being lose weight. I feel like at the heart of my problems are not loving my body right now... I have never been over weight but this past year from stress and an unhealthy lifestyle of drinking and partying I have put on too much weight which has only added to my depression. But now I have a new job and I am trying to get out of my old habits and into some new healthy ways of dealing with life.
I am going to the farmers market today to buy all heathly good veggies and fruits. I am starting a walking program in the mornings and no drinking for a week will probably do me a world of good.
Here are some problems I am facing and I would love to know if there is any one out there that has similar problems.
I have two events that I have to attend this week and I know that they will be serving alcohol...it's free and it will be EVERYWHERE! One of them is a party that I am helping to promote and the other is an engagement party.. How do you guys get through theses sort of temptations? I have such a difficult time with impulse control and then feel so guilty when I slip. Also I am PMSing... Everytime I start a diet I always start to tell myself there are all these things in the way and I shouldn't start and then I never do... I finally have said to myself that I have to DO something to ever be happy. Hence the CSD which seems pretty healthy.
Anyone that can lead some good advice or a helpful story would be greatly appreciated! I'm excited about this new chapter in my life and I encourage you all to keep it up if it is indeed making you feel better and making you healthier. Much love and support.
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Well Wecome MySharona,
Taking charge of one's behavior is not an easy task, and we have all faced our roadblocks, fell off the "wagon" and found great support here.
Are you sure this is the week you should start with the two events? If so (and I know you can do this) the best advice I can give you is No. 1 eat your soup before you go you need to feel full and that will make the temptations feel less No. 2 You do not have to drink to have a good time, carry a tall glass of water or diet soda, if you have to snack seek out the veggies and skip the dip...keep something in both your hands at all times...
hope this might help let us know we love a good success story of will power! We are here for you
nancy
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It will always be something... if it's not two events; it's a client meeting or a company party, blah, blah
) I just got back from the market and have so many wonderful foods!
Question: Do cherry tomatos count as a fruit or veggie?
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Technically tomatoes are a fruit but they count as a vegetable.
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LOL twilight
As I have been told by my children---if it grows above ground and has seeds it is a fruit!
so that means tomatoes, pumkins, and so on
nancy
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Hello All!!
MySharona..I am pretty much the same situation, have had some really stressfull times lately and totally let myself go. I have made a promise to myself to begin a healthy new lifestyle but first I need to jumpstart the weightloss. I am feeling totally disgusted with myself and dont fit into any of my clothes. Plus I am a bridesmaid in exactly 14 days and cannot zip up my dress that I bought in June! I am going to make the soup tomorow, just wrote down the recipe and am now figuring out my grocery list. I am really glad i found this site because it always helps when someone is doing it with you. I'm a little nervouse but reading all the positive posts on her as given me some confidence!
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First day, not so bad! you can do it, erycalin. I know what you mean about not fitting into anything. I have a huge event I have to host in LA in 2 weeks and I have nothing to wear because I can't fit into anything. It so frustrating and I refuse to go out and buy more clothes. So I am determind to do this! But I know I can't do it alone because I have tried before with NO success.
A lot of friends tell me that people gain the weight right back but I think that is because they are starving themselves and telling themselves they can't have things which makes you only want it more... I am trying to use positive thinking like...hmm, I love fiji apples...they are better than gummi bears could ever be! lol! hopefully this will continue as the week progresses!
All in all my friends seem reluctant to support me but out of all the detox diets I think this is one I can stick to...
I have made my friends play scrabble instead of heading to the bar. Everyone that came over tonight was amazed at how good my soup turned out!
I sauteed onion, garlic, fresh itlaian parsley and peppers. Then dumped those into my crock pot with mushrooms, beef broth, V8 and water. Then I added diced Jalopeno's MINUS the Seeds...btw be very careful not to touch those peppers with your hands. My hands were burning for hours afterwards and there is nothing you can do..
I sliced carrots, orka, celery, and cabbage and cooked them with the stock in my saute pan and let them boil for a bit then dumped them into the broth. I even added some baby spinach that gave it a wonderful contrast of color. I added a little pepper and sea salt ( I used low sodium broth and V8).
then let simmer for about 2 hours. I tried to get most of my veggies and herbs from the farmers market and it makes the taste SO much better. The flavors are so bold and the smell was so inviting. The soup has a little heat from the peppers but not to much.
Simply Delicious.
I also made a fruit salad of watermelon, clementine oranges, mango, and pomogrant for a bit of crunch.
Tomorrw I am going to cook fresh turnip greens in beef broth and I have fresh asparagus to snack on...one of my favorites!
Let me know if you think of any good recipes! We can be each others cheerleaders! You Can DO It!
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You know I was going to go to the grocery store but now that you mention it the farmers market would be so much better. I live upstate NY and we have veg stands on the side of the road all over. Plus the town I live in is very hippieish so there are lots of organic and health food places. I guess if I'm gonna do thean do it right! I have figured it out that I should start tomorow so I am going to make my soup today. It works out because I have the beachelorette dinner thing on Sat and if thats day six then I can have steak and veggies.
Yes we can definatly be each others cheerleeders...Go Team Us!!!...lol
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